Empathy vs Ego

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We all have an ego, but size differ. We got it in primary school when kids were jerks or perhaps earlier if our older siblings, or other family members were jerks first. The ego kept us safe from the emotional slings and arrows. But now that we're grown, it is a wall that separates. It's time for it to come down. By practicing openness instead of defensiveness, forgiveness instead of vengeance, apology instead of blame, vulnerability instead of strength, and grace instead of power.

New Years Resolution: Drinking

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I should say that I'm now married to a woman who does not drink alcohol, but I was once married to a woman who not only drank, but also had a few drinkers in the family.

Here are some things that I have realized. If you cant drink in moderation, it is best to quit slowly and in phases, but to drink is not half as good for your senses as not to drink. Another thing I now know for sure, no one has to drink to have fun. As someone who’s been drinking since his senior year of high school, too many events in my life revolved around booze. Shows, parties, meetups, conferences and dinners.

RIP Natalie Cole

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Natalie Cole has died in Hollywood. The beloved singer and daughter Of Nat King Cole died on January 1 at the age of 65. She passed away from congestive heart failure after suffering liver disease, hepatitis C and had a kidney transplant. May she rest in peace.

Natalie Cole, legendary songstress, dead at 65 http://usat.ly/1R23QFa

Natalie Cole - When I Fall In Love (Virtual Duet with Nat King Cole) https://youtu.be/PxS0Trxc59k was Unforgettable https://youtu.be/MKCyUe4syc4

When I Fall In Love (Virtual Duet with Nat King Cole) https://youtu.be/PxS0Trxc59k

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Seasons Bereavings

A recent study in The Journal of Social Science and Medicine found that the level of deliberate self harm fluctuated significantly around Christmas and New Year (Bergen & Hawton, 2007). Similarly, other studies have found significant fluctuations in the number of homicides (Bridges, 2004) and motor vehicle accidents (National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, 2009) around these holidays.

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Progress in Technology

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We are living at a time when great advances are constantly made in many areas of science and technology. These advances are having a major impact on our lives, and this will probably continue to be the case for the foreseeable future.

This Treasury Office photo indicates just how far computers have evolved. Now a general-purpose electronic device that can be programmed for just about any logical operations automatically.

Since a sequence of operations can be readily changed, the computer can solve more than one kind of problem. http://www.doseofnews.com/index.php?loc=technology

Food For Thought

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Eating up Whole Foods market share: It was not a good year for Austin-based Whole Foods Market Inc. (Nasdaq: WFM). The organic grocer reported disappointing financial results for several quarters and is working on a new concept, a millennial-oriented discount chain, to improve its numbers.

Fall From Grace

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There has to be more pressing global news than the salaciousness stemming from an NBC TV program featuring a secret agent, America's funniest dad - Now a reality show. Scandals of all kinds are part of news cycles, but this one has a life of its own.

Bill Cosby charged with a sex crime dating to 2004 http://hosted2.ap.org/APDEFAULT/3d281c11a96b4ad082fe88aa0db04305/Articl…

Bill Cosby Arraigned for Alleged Aggravated Indecent Assault - ABC News - http://abcn.ws/1Tq35n3 via @ABC

BBC News - Bill Cosby charged with indecent assault http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-35201511

Bill Cosby charged with sexual assault stemming from 2004 allegation | PBS NewsHour http://to.pbs.org/1mSAJYm via @NewsHour

Via @NPR: Cosby Charged With Felony Sexual Assault In Philadelphia-Area Case http://n.pr/1OZRozI

Bill Cosby charged with felony sexual assault in Pennsylvania http://reut.rs/1OxBKBw via @Reuters

Bill Cosby arraigned on sexual assault charge in Pennsylvania http://usat.ly/1QZjS2H via @usatoday

MARIST Scholarship

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TV Celebrity and Fox News Channel superstar host Bill O’Reilly donated $1 million to create a new scholarship fund at Marist College. O’Reilly is a member of Marist’s class of 1971.

The Peter P. O’Keefe, PhD. Endowed Scholarship provides financial support on a yearly basis, with O’Reilly meet9ng with the scholarship recipients. These recipients will be selected based on their promise in academic and leadership roles, as well as financial need.

Losing Weight???

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According to The Marist Poll. health and employment are top of mind heading into 2016. Among Americans who plan to make a New Year’s resolution, weight loss, 12%, takes the top spot followed by getting a better job, 10%. Exercising more, 9%, quitting smoking, 9%, and improving one’s, overall, health, 9%, round out the top five New Year’s resolutions for 2016.

While weight loss, 13%, was the leading resolution for 2015, finding a better job was the goal of just 5%. But, this year, fueled by people under 45, among whom it’s number one, getting a better job also rivals the top spot for all Americans.

Do Americans plan to make a resolution for 2016? Less than four in ten Americans, 39%, say they are very likely or likely to do so. This is down from 44% last year. However, similar to last year, younger Americans are more likely to resolve to change than older Americans in the New Year.

Many Americans are also true to their word. Nearly two-thirds of those who made a resolution for 2015, 64%, report they kept their resolution, at least, in part. Similar proportions of men, 65%, and women, 63%, say they kept their promise. The proportion of women who kept their resolution increased from 55% last year.

Complete December 22, 2015 Marist Poll of the United States Poll points:

12% of Americans who are likely to make a New Year’s resolution vow to lose weight. 10% want to find a better job. Getting more exercise, 9%, ceasing smoking, 9%, and improving their health, 9%, follow. Eight percent want to be a better person, and another 8% say they will try to eat healthier in the New Year. Seven percent resolve to spend less and save more. Last year, 13% vowed to lose weight, 10% promised to exercise more, 9% resolved to be a better person, and 8% wanted to improve their health. Quitting smoking, 7%, spending less and saving more, 7%, and eating healthier, 7%, followed.

Regional differences exist. One in five Northeast residents who plan to make a resolution, 20%, resolve to find a better job. However, in the Midwest, quitting smoking, 12%, improving one’s health, 11%, and eating healthier, 10%, vie for the top spot. 13% of those in the South cite weight loss while 12% mention saving more and spending less. Among those in the West, 13% want to find a new job, 12% cite exercising more, and 11% mention weight loss.

Women, 16%, are more likely than men, 6%, to mention weight loss. Men, 13%, put finding a better job at the top of their list. Quitting smoking, 11%, and exercising more, 10%, follow.

39% of Americans are very likely or likely to make a resolution for 2016 while 61% are not likely at all to do so. The proportion of Americans making resolutions is down from 44% last year and at the lowest point since 2011 when 38% of residents vowed to do so.

Americans under 45, 47%, are more likely than older residents, 31%, to make a resolution. Still, the proportion of younger Americans making resolutions is down from 56%.

Among those who vowed to change something in their life last year, 64% kept that resolution, at least, in part.

Wintry Weather Mucks US Region

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A major storm system will continue to heavy snowfall and ice through tonight across the Northern and Central Plains, Great Lakes and Northeast. Heavy rain and flooding will impact portions of the central and southern United States through tonight. Severe weather will affect parts of the southeastern U.S.

Temperatures in NYC and surrounding areas plunged and a winter weather advisory is in effect for suburban counties north of New York City from Monday night through Tuesday morning as a wintry mix sweeps through the region.