PROVERBS

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Más vale amar a un viejo que sepa qué es amor, que no a un muchacho que anda como colibrí.

It is better to love an old man who knows what love is, than a young man who flits about like a hummingbird.

This classic Spanish proverb beautifully contrasts fleeting passion with mature, steady devotion. It highlights the contrast between the wisdom and emotional consistency of experience and the restless, superficial flitting of youth. 

The Hummingbird: Symbolizes a young lad who moves rapidly from flower to flower. It represents someone who shines brightly and offers thrilling excitement, but is easily distracted, inconsistent, and lacks long-term commitment.

The Older Man: Symbolizes emotional maturity and experience. He may not provide the same initial flash of rapid excitement, but he "knows what it is"—bringing a deep, reliable, and grounded understanding of love and loyalty. 

The saying champions substance over flash, encouraging the choice of a partner who offers understanding, patience, and unwavering care over a love that is tender.